Routes to Help

We are now open to referrals for the Young Victim Service and SASH MK. Referrals to Building Respectful Families are open for families in Buckinghamshire and Berkshire. Referrals for families in Oxfordshire will be opening in August 2022.

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Helpful Infomation when completing the form

Please ensure that all fields are completed and the the D.O.B is entered in this format 01/02/2013, if they do not apply or you do not know, just enter n/a or unknown. Only enter the GP Surgery name.

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PLEASE NOTE: We are experiencing extremely high numbers of referrals and would ask you to check our criteria closely before referring. We are not a crisis service and there is a likely to be several weeks wait before we are able to meet with a child one-to-one. We are working hard to try to reduce our waiting times and keep in contact with families whilst waiting, but we ask for your patience and understanding.

A few key things to remember:

  • The young person must be aware of the referral and consent to support.
  • We cannot provide support where abuse is ongoing.
  • We are not a specialist mental health service.

The Young Victim Service (YVS)

  • Help to cope with an experience of crime or victimisation through practical and emotional support.
  • One-to-one support for children aged 5 to 18 (up to 25 for those with additional needs.
  • Find out more
  • Refer online

Building Respectful Families (BRF)

A restorative whole family approach to help where there is Child and Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse (CAPVA) in the home.

  • One-to-one and group support for children aged 8 to 18 , and their parents/caregivers
  • Find out more 
  • To make a referral to the Building Respectful Families Service please read the ‘Information for Referrers’ guide here and then email the team at


  • A Milton Keynes support service for children and their families who have experienced sexual harm
  • A partnership service working together with AVMKSAASS providing advocacy, practical help and counselling
  • Refer online

If you are unsure which of the above services is most appropriate, please use the this link and a member of the team will contact you to discuss the most appropriate pathway

If you are a young person or parent and would like to self-refer but cannot use the online form please email for The Young Victims Service and for Building Respectful Families with your name and number, and someone will call you to take a referral over the phone.

We use interpretation services whenever required to ensure we can meet the needs of any young person or parent/carer.  We can help if you have any special requirements to access our support.


If you or someone else is in immediate danger please contact the police on 999.


If you need immediate support please contact ChildLine by visiting their website or calling their helpline on 0800 11 11. It is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.


If you live outside of the Thames Valley, you may still be able to get help. To find out what's available in your area you could:

  • Contact the police on their non-emergency contact number 101 which will put you through to your local police station
  • Visit the Ministry of Justice's search tool for victims of crime for a local support agency. The search tool can be found here
  • Find your local Victim Support group by visiting their website or by calling 0845 30 30 900

If you have any problems finding appropriate support in your area please email or phone SAFE! on 01865 582495 and we shall try our best to find the appropriate service for you.